If you have one person in your life who accepts you, warts and all, you are doing just fine.
If you are exhausted trying to be a perfect person for many others to approve of, stop.
If they don’t see you, for who you are, the good and bad, then they never will.
We are all flawed and we all mess up. No matter how hard we try, there will be days when we just don’t say or do the right things.
If that loses you someone, you never had them in the first place.
If you are constantly trying to ‘win’ their approval or their friendship. Please consider giving that s**t up.
That’s not how friendship works.
Friendship, is when you just love the very essence of someone, and really, aside from acts of evil or betrayal, there is pretty much nothing they can do or say to affect that love.
If they are rejecting you, judging you or gossiping about you, it’s pretty clear that their feelings for you are not mutual.
If they don’t support you, encourage you or wish great things your way…
They are just not that into you.
So, take your sunshine and rain that gorgeousness with a passion on someone who really gets you.
Someone who is into you.
It will be the best gift you could give yourself.