If You Are A Woman Who Wants It All


If You Are A woman Who Wants It All

And why wouldn’t you?

I have a little advice for you…

Yes you can have it all, but be careful what you wish for.

You see, life is at its very, very best when it is peaceful, and still, and simple…

The hubbub and the chaos and the treadmill that we pound daily, is all very well and good, but it is fast.
It is crowded.
It is mean.

The ‘life’ that everyone else is chasing: 2.4 kids, great career, solid marriage, perfect house, cool car – is actually a bit of a cliche.
It’s not the be-all and end-all.
There is so, so much more, to aspire towards.

If I could tell you one thing only, it would be to rethink what your ‘all’ looks like.
Be flexible with the order it comes in.


Some people are simply meant to have their family young – and some are meant to wait. It all works out in the end – whilst both roads have their ups and downs, the blessings are plenty.

Some people find their ‘one’ first time round, some people pay it forward for their true love – with pain and heartache. It all comes right in the end.

Some people choose their career path and remain on it for life, others must look a little harder for their ‘thing’. We all get there.

If you are feeling frustrated that your life is not falling into line, it is probably because it is not your life – you are chasing someone elses’s vision.

Do not follow the herd, follow your heart – and your head – they are a team and they work best that way.

Whatever your ‘all’ looks like, enjoy the journey, for one day you will look back and realise that the journey was the most important part.

©LPIO 2017

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