Why you NEED a Memory Jar.

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Life is busy…this I know.

And with the soaring popularity of Pinterest and other social media it’s very easy to feel like there are a MILLION things we should be doing to enhance our lives but aren’t. This new tradition however, is the one you actually do need. Why? Simply because of the above statement – life is busy. Life is so busy that it’s very easy to remember only the big happy/sad/stressful/amazing moments and forget the minutiae that came in-between. It’s in these small details that life really exists. The little every day heart-warming or proud moments that keep us trundling along.

Last year my beloved friend Jennie and I decided to keep a Memory Jar and read it out together on NYE the following year. This seemed like a great way to stick at it – a buddy! Everything is easier with a buddy spurring you along and sure enough, after a suspiciously bald patch during the summer, I picked it back up again in Autumn when I saw how full Jennie’s jar was!

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A standard entry from mine…

Throughout the year I wrote down the funny things my kids said, the lovely moments when life was sweet and those little achievements that made us proud. I encouraged the whole family to put notes in; since I live with 3 boys that was never ever going to happen but there was the odd cry of “Oh, that’s one for the jar?” from them. And in the jar it went.

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There were times of course, when I really wanted to pop something in the jar but couldn’t find the pad/pen/strength, but on the whole it was easy to do and on the 31st December, when we all sat down together to read….it was truly BRILLIANT.

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Our jars nestled lovingly on NYE

If you are prone to the sentimental, or want to soften someone who isn’t, I truly recommend that you take this tradition up. We laughed, we cried, we reminisced and what better thing to be doing on the cusp of a New Year than to really treasure and savour the best of what went before…

So, I urge you all to go forth, grab a jar (keep it near a pen and pad) and start recording those moments – you won’t regret it!

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