Ladies Pass it On

1 day ago

There will be days, my friend….

When you feel like you just can’t go on.
Just keep swimming.
Breathe in and breathe out and wait for the light of a new day to dawn.

There will be days, my friend….

When nothing seems to be making sense.
It’s not supposed to.
Clear your mind and open your heart, the answers will come in time.

There will be days, my friend…

When the pain rises up and engulfs you.
Be kind to yourself.
Lay low and let the tears flow like a river, release, open the floodgates, let it out.

There will be days my friend…

When it feels like the whole world is against you. When it feels like you cannot do right for doing wrong.
Just sit it out.
Tomorrow is a new day and these feelings will pass. I promise.

You see, life is all things, from one day to the next.

It is beautiful at times, wondrous, amazing and joyful – then it is awful, miserable and heart-breaking.

And the cycle goes around.

It is as it should be.


Everything is as it should be and you, you will be okay.

Have faith.

Keep hope in your heart.

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Ladies Pass it On

5 days ago

There Was A Time, When I Would Have Set Myself On Fire, To Keep Others Warm…


There was a time, when I would have crossed oceans to reach people, who wouldn’t cross a stream for me.

There was a time, when I would try, too hard, to be seen by those, who would simply never see me.

There was a time, when I felt myself unworthy, of a person, who could actually never be worthy of me.

But not anymore.

You see, my friend, there are many ways to spend your time on this earth – but wasting it, on those who are not worthy of your attention, is a crying shame.

Use your time wisely.

Save your best efforts for those who will return the favour, who will appreciate your attention. Those who truly value you.

And the rest? If they do not see you now, they never will.

And they are missing out.

Make this year the year that you realise, your time is precious and should only be bestowed on those who bring you comfort, positivity, support, love or joy.

Or all of the above.

Remember, you are the main act, not a warm up, and this, my friend, is no dress rehearsal.

This is it.

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Ladies Pass it On

1 week ago

If You Are A Woman Without Her Mother


There will never be a day you don’t miss her. Never a day, where you don’t wish you could hear her voice or ask for her advice just one more time.

There will never be a moment that you don’t regret all the times you screened her call, or missed a visit, simply because life was too goddamn busy.

And now you realise busy is fake, it isn’t real.

She was real and she is gone.

And you are alone.

And the feeling of abandonment and loneliness is huge. Mind-blowing, no matter how loved or surrounded by family you may be.

None of it is her.

When the woman who brought you into this world is no longer here, it is a lonely place.

And you are now she.

You are now the one expected to guide, to discipline, to love, to handle everything, for everyone. And that is a shock.

But you got this.

Because she taught you well.

She made you right and she made you strong and she filled you with enough love to share around, even after she was gone.

So go on.

And make her proud.

And remember, look out for the little girl who still lives inside you somewhere, she misses her Mama very much.

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